Getting Laid In CollegeHow do I meet girls in college? |
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Let us give you a couple of easy tips to think about the rest of the day. Listening to the guys in your dorm or a bunch of all-talk, no-action Frat boys will get you nowhere. Keep your own counsel, study women like you would a required Social Science course, and always have courage.
1. Don't be a douche bag - Chicks are people, too. It is great to be cocky and funny around them, but not sarcastic or negative. Respect her feelings and talk as positive as you can on all subjects (No putting down professors, other guys in class, or strange people on campus. Leave that for the jerks using three pounds of mousse and dressing like a member of a boy-band.) Be the guy who quietly looks at Life with the anticipation of future positive experiences.
2. Listen to her and validate her perspective and feelings - Most guys are so caught up with discussing their self-perceived strengths, bragging about some diddly accomplishment, or looking to get attention by acting like a donkey that they blow it completely. I'm not saying be some weenie Nice Guy ...but you can certainly do everything in your power to quietly project being a Good Guy. The best way to do this is to listen to her and give her short, supportive validation on her insights. DO NOT TALK FOR LONG. Just give her enough positive feedback that will keep her talking and enhance your image in her mind.
3. Know who you are - You don't need to come across as a tough guy...or a guy with lots of anger issues to impress college girls. You don't need to be opinionated or fixated on one subject. (Chicks are easily turned off by guys who are TOO political...TOO religious...TOO into drinking...TOO into your iPod...TOO into working out....TOO anything.) They admire guys who have a quiet, positive, balanced approach to Life. They admire a guy with strong ambition who can keep his mouth shut.
4. Be current and confident without being an ass - This pretty much goes with #3. Quiet confidence must be mastered. It is something you need to work on everyday. Learn all you can about everything you can. Be observant. Read. Listen to others respectfully.
5. Be a physical man - Chicks admire a guy who looks lean, tight, and athletic. You don't have to look like a bodybuilder, but you need to look good with your shirt off. If you've got some flab, get a grip on your eating habits and start making better food choices. Do something active each day...either lifting weights or doing some kind of cardio for 30-40 minutes. You don't have to draw attention to yourself, Just Do It.
All right, here we go...
Number one, getting laid in college is affected greatly by your approach to a good-looking girl. They normally decide, in the first 30 - 90 seconds if they are curious about what it would be like in bed with you...or if they want you for their new "male girlfriend".
Fortunately, our friend, Mike Pilinski has written the best downloadable eBook we have read on meeting and approaching women. His system Without Embarrassment - She's Yours For The Taking has helped thousands of guys in the past 10 years. You'll learn exactly what to say, when to say it, and how to make it your own.
There's
plenty more in this step-by-step
report that will help you become physically intimate
with new girls you meet on campus.
Stop
being the guy who wonders what women want...and start being
the guy who knows what they need. Let
the other guys on campus blunder through their approach. Getting laid in college all hinges on a woman's perception of you. Remember...You NEVER get a 2nd chance to make a first impression.
It doesn't matter if the girl you are interested in is a
new freshman, or a senior looking toward graduation. All
of them want a guy in their life who is confident, can make
them laugh, and has the skills to talk with them about subjects
on their mind.
Why shouldn't that guy be you?
If you do not approach a woman, you're chances are about 100% that you will NOT sleep with her! (Hey, we did pass math with a "D" our sophomore years.) As far as we know, there is only one other solid resource that has been written for this, the most important piece of the puzzle...an outstanding book by Neil Strauss called The Rules of the Game. Trust us, this will be one of the most interesting and beneficial books you'll ever read in college.
Wanting to get laid in college is a worthwhile goal. Sure, there's a learning curve and you'll make some bonehead mistakes, but you've got four years to get it right, so make the study of getting women into bed just as important as the required classes for your major.
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