Can Freshmen Get Laid In College?
Getting laid in college your freshman year
Can freshman get laid in college? Can you really get laid your freshman year? These are legitimate questions that guys have on their mind. The answer is yes, but it will take some work on your part.
Contrary to what you read on some of the asinine forums, getting laid anywhere...on campus, in a new town, after a date with a new girl...all take some work. Remember, on the Internet, even the biggest dork in school can sound like an experienced cocksman.
If you buy-in to the nonsense that college girls have only two things in mind...demonstrating their independence and getting laid, you are going to smash into one brick wall after another.
Yes, college chicks are very motivated to demonstrate their independence...but along with that comes their desire to be "very selective" of who they invite into bed. Once they realize they do the choosing, and that they hold the cards, the needle on their Power Meter gets stuck to the very far right.
And yes, college girls want to get laid...but they want a warm, meaningful, romantic moment. The idea of one person having an orgasm inside of another is repulsive to them. They function on feelings and emotions.
You can spend money on all kinds of phony courses telling you how to hypnotize, manipulate, or "seduce" college girls into bed...but when it comes down to the moment...THEY do the choosing.
As one girl told me, "We know if you are going to get lucky tonight when we're drying our hair before we go out."
You do not want your freshman year to be one of frustration and botched attempts. You do NOT want to get labeled as some horn-dog who puts his hands all over chicks and is always trying to coerce them into bed. If you get labeled as a some kind of stalker/sleazebag guy, you can kiss pussy goodbye for your four years on campus.
Getting Laid Freshman Year Strategy
Freshmen get laid when they put some hard effort into studying the lay of the land, how to relate to college women in a way that makes them more desirable than the other guys, and establishing an identity that elevates their status.
Just like in high school, there is a pecking-order on campus. It mostly comes down to who has established the baseline for status and importance. Athletes have it pretty much built-in. Guys in fraternities also rank up there. If you are not competing for a varsity position on one of the athletic teams, pledging a fraternity can be real helpful.
Whatever you decide, the one thing you MUST focus on is becoming the best man you can be. This will elevate your status in the locker room, in your fraternity house, and on campus in general.
Freshmen get laid, but it is not nearly as quickly as they want. Just like getting stronger, getting smarter, getting better at the guitar...getting laid in college is progressive and involves a focus on building your skills.
* Become more observant. Become more conscious. Become more aware...but keep your mouth SHUT. Watch all interactions with college chicks. Listen to conversational exchanges, especially between the girls themselves. You will learn a hell of a lot in life by watching, listening, and keeping your mouth closed.
* Quietly start building an identity of a guy who gets things done..on his own. Learn everything you can about taking care of your tuition, finding a campus, renting a study carrel at the library, doing your laundry. Whatever it is, learn it...and keep quiet about it. Freshmen get laid when they are seen as functional and on top of things.
* Be a stud in the classroom. Work hard to get the best grades possible, but NEVER draw any attention to your success with the books. Develop solid study skills. Go to the Library every day. Ace every test you can, but do it quietly. College chicks pick up on guys who do well in their studies and make it look effortless.
* Start working on building the best body you can. Too many guys succumb to the Freshman 15 and sabotage their chances of getting laid as a freshman...or even as a senior. Eat consciously. Eat only foods that benefit you. Learn everything you can about what foods are most easily stored as male belly fat....then stay away from them. Eating healthy in college is something you must master if you plan on getting laid in college.
* Smile and say, "Hello" to as many girls as you can during the day. It does not have to be any more than this. Nod, smile, say "Hello." Do it to chick you can from the Homecoming Queen to the girl who serves you soup in the university cafeteria.
* Learn as much as you can about being a good listener, communicating in a positive and validating way, giving sincere compliments, and teasing chicks without being an asshole.
* Be quietly positive. Be conscious that friendship skills are paramount, but make sure you are seen as a guy chicks want to take to bed...NOT be their little male-girlfriend.
* Watch The Tao of Steve It's an old video, but it has some great lessons to help you stay out of the dreaded "just a friend" cesspool.
This is just a short list of things to work on. It is by no mean exhaustive. You'll learn more as you keep your eyes open and your mouth shut.
Like I said, freshmen get laid, but it will definitely take some work on your part. Be conscious of everything. DO NOT go through your freshman year on auto-pilot.
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